WRONG IDEAS ABOUT LOVE....

CHASING A MIRAGE CALLED......

EVERY MOMENT COUNTS

WHEN YOUR DOWN AND BLUE REMEMBER.....

Cross Roads

WHAT WE KNOW ABOUT BREAK UP?

No doubt break up is a painful experience that so many have gone through and are going through and will go through.

Actually the momentum of the feelings in this phase is extraordinary and indescribable that it could be destructive sometimes....but why?.

To be honest,we cause this to ourselves,we bring it on ourselves as if we owe this to ourselves....as if we owe ourselves pain,hurt,depression and all the symptoms come along with the break up.

The most hurtful part in the break up is the memories which generate so many conflicted feelings such like grudge,craving,hate,missing,revenge,weak,etc.....but there is one feeling controls them all and feeds them all and causes them all which is regret that translates how you feel as mentioned based on your character.

Regret is a two edged weapon depends on our understanding to the word itself.It could be either destructive or constructive.

What we need to know about regret is that it is a positive feeling which responsible for making us better,stronger and it is a prelude to a self healing mechanism as well.

The bottom line is in the break up,there is no one to blame even yourself,because we are humans and humans make mistakes,that is our only way to learn,the question is "are you a quick learner or not?."

RELATIONSHIPS,WHAT THEY GOING THROUGH?

Every Relationship goes through problems and since problems are a part of our lives,it makes no sense to avoid them or even trying to stop them from happening.......,but problems are made to be solved.

One of our major problems in Relationships is that we either a mind readers or we don’t have a clue.....Telepathy is a great gift if some of us have,but we’re not all like this,that is why we have tongues,to communicate,to share our fears,our hopes,our dreams,to express ourselves and our feelings.

In the opposite site,some of us find themselves confused and messed up,and because they’re very  keen on making things work,they don’t mind being confused until they ask others’ help.

These are two sides of the same coin,lack of communication whether it is "i already know and my partner also knows,so no need to ask" or "it is not the right time,i am just going to wait."

If you don’t need to ask,remember that words what keep your feelings alive,otherwise you’ll loose your gift.

If you’re keeping your fears and questions for yourself,you’re keeping yourself away from the true meaning of Relationship. 

A MESSAGE THAT WILL DELIVER.

 I can tell you mad at me,that is when i am not feeling good about myself.

I can tell you’re pleased,that is when all the world smiles at me.

I can tell you need me,that is when i feel lost.

What do you do to me?....How come i never find words to say?.....Where could i find words to describe how i feel?......you’re right,how could i ask for the impossible?.....silly me,i am trying to describe the indescribable......but that is unfair.

I am wondering if i could keep going like that,having this burden upon me is not easy.....not easy to carry nor easy to share.

I did not ask for you to happen to me and yet,i can do nothing,except being grateful.

I can feel nothing,but you.I can see nothing,but you.I can be nothing without you.

They keep telling me there is something wrong with me,but what they know?.....absolutely nothing.

They claim they know better,i could claim that as well.

They say i am not reasonable and what is reason?.

They say i am crazy,may be they’re right.....But why they’re criticizing me if i never complain?

If only they know.......If only they feel.

LOVE AND PAIN.

Some would say love is tasteless without pain,some would say love doesn’t know pain.

As long as we live,we have to experience pain.Whether it is caused by love or not,this pain keeps reminding us we are alive......and love is the only way to get through it.

DESPERATE FOR LOVE.

All my life,i keep meeting so many who were desperate for love,to be loved,to experience how it feels like to be important to someone,having someone you’re responsible for,someone his touch means the world to you,his smile makes you feel good about your self,his pain blues your life and the list goes on.....then they move to the next question:

"Am i asking for too much?"....and eventually they either lose faith in love or hold it much stronger than ever and refuse not to believe,refuse to give up their dreams,refuse to give in to disappointments of life,but leads us to another question:

Are we fighting out of desperation or hope?.......

LOVE is a very wide word that you can’t find two people agreed to one definition of,a very divine word that couldn’t be described,a very simple word carries venerable meanings....that makes me wonder are we qualified to love?.i believe we are,but "are we qualified to be loved?".Since our ideas of love rise to perfection and we can’t be even close to perfection

that leads me straight to the answer  "we aren’t qualified to be loved."

That make no sense,right....we can love and yet, we’re not qualified to be loved....it is pretty much confusing,isn’t it?.

All i am saying is this,as love can’t be contained since it is too perfect,that means non of us will up for it.

So,what is that we feel towards others?

A slice of love,an aspect of love’s so many aspects,a portion of love,call it whatever you want but don’t call it love,why?

I believe each one of us has his own idea about love and as long as they are ideas,they are perfect,till they meet with reality.....when you call it love,you ask for perfection which you will never have......and you finally meet your disappointment.

   







The bottom line is,as long as you are seeking love,you might get 
lucky and you may not.

it is more like a destiny game,so it is not guaranteed.....our bigger problem is that we always forget or "choose to forget" that we always have a choice.

Instead of seeking love,we could create our own.